But the thing is, I always want to resolve things, to let people know that my insecurity and paranoia isn't because of them (when it's applicable that is). I'll give an example, I can't stand it how people don't make an effort to make you feel better when they know perfectly well that they're the cause of your emotional discomfort, if it's with Facebook they won't comment your status explaining themselves (do I dare suggest them saying sorry), they'll instead make a vague status describing you as "People" and say you're being paranoid, usually with an aggressive emoticon to suggest you're a complete bastard for being insecure. That's right, not a disappointed or upset emoticon, but a furious one to suggest that they're the only ones that are allowed to have feelings. I used to have a similar problem however, when I didn't feel confident enough to explain anything or discuss problems with people, it would be shared on Facebook for all my friends to see, and I admit that it was wrong. I've grown out of it though and even though I know that counterfeit insecurity is possibly where the problem lies, it's still a bit of an insult to know that they don't care about your feelings, and I know full-well that a comment on their counterfeit status would just cause bitching and whining.
And there's the issue, why is the system of society's behaviour like that? I firmly believe that it's the natural human collision of realising that they've done something wrong and their insecure reaction, and this leads to the minor behaviour of arrogant aggressiveness which I truly think is accidental. However I think the accidental effect only lasts for a few seconds and slowly they begin to convince themselves that what they did or said is correct and that they themselves did not do anything wrong.
The whole circle is a bit complicated, and I myself have difficulty imagining the whole situation unravelling in a pub, or somewhere of physical social interaction. So it raises the question, is the Internet to blame? In my opinion, it's not the definitive blame. The Internet has just raised emphasis on the social negativity brought on by free speech and the Anonymous descriptions that can be given by social networks, that being sharing statuses and tweets and such. Facebook is a huge impact on it, it has so many ethical errors and has discovered so many holes in privacy it's unbelievable.
Just saying all this, I'm a bit more confident in my own belief of why paranoia is quite unnecessary.
Peace out.
